Keeping your marriage spicy after a child

So you just gave birth an the spark in your relationship seems dim? If I could count the number of times I heard this.... I probably wouldn't be writting this article. Well for beginners I know having a newborn can be a demanding job but in order to keep the flame in the bedroom going I strongly suggest begin your new born sleeping pattern in their nursery. Most new parents tend to be worried about putting their newborn down for the night but if baby is sleeping it creates perfect opportunities to rekindle old flames. Begin your evening by putting baby down for the night. Most likely both you and your partner are tired from the demanding nature of parenthood, so suggest a nice hot soothing bath together and get as creative as you can bubbles usually work. After the bath an a quick check in on the baby, return to the bedroom. Now you may not be feeling up to the intimate stuff but who says you can't have fun with the harmless stuff! Attire for this type of event should be something soft and smooth so that you can each feel each others body as if you weren't wearing anything at all. Begin by caressing each other, whisper sweet nothings and just reconnect on a more personal level. Although this won't completely rid you of the intimate wanting it will help heighten horizons and make it just that more pleasurable when the return to intamacy does return.  As a side note when ever baby is sleeping try new things together.  Try going through the fridge an helping each other taste all sweets.  In the laundry room try wrapping each other in the same sheet.  Enjoy